And now for the third installment in the series, “The Economy, Fear, The Mainstream Media, and You.” Check out Part 1 and Part 2.
Understand your situation. What this means is that it can help you to understand that this down economy (and however it may be affecting you) is just a temporary state in the evolution of your life and the world around you. Things will get better. Economies go in cycles. Granted, this one is worse than it has been in a long time, but it will go up and improve.
This is also where the concept of acceptance can be very important. When you accept that the current happenings are just a small blip in the grand scheme of things, and your life, you will start to have more hope and less stress. You will be a success, no matter what your current situation. When you accept and realize that what is happening around you is just part of the journey, then you will be able to orient your mind toward bigger and better aspirations.
Furthermore, if your life hasn’t been affected much by the recession, and things are pretty much the status quo, then it can be counterproductive to overly worry about the fearsome things that the mainstream media projects towards us incessantly. Just because they highlight every detail of every disastrous bit of economic news ‘round-the-clock, doesn’t mean that there is impending doom for everyone. Yes, the future may be uncertain, but you cannot know what it holds. As a result, racking your brain with perpetual worries and a barrage of what-ifs will only lessen your quality of life.
But all this doesn’t mean that you should not be prepared if indeed misfortune does happen.
When you understand the nature of the situation, and are looking at the big picture, rather than short-term happenings, it makes it easier to not let your mind overly attach itself to worry, and trying to negate that worry. As we all know, the path of life does not always follow the exact direction we desire it to go. There are many things that are completely outside of our control. Unfortunately though, the mind is quite sensitive to looking for total control and certainty, in the respect that it feels we should be in control of everything. It may project upon us thoughts similar to the following: “If this happens, it was because of me.” “If that happened, then it was my fault.” “If I lose my job in the future, then I will be deemed a failure because I will not be able to provide for my children in the ways that I always have been.”
You see where I am going with this. When the what-ifs and the uncertainty that fear creates overly manifest themselves in your mind, they can cause you to re-hash scenarios over and over, looking for a way out. It’s like this, for example. Say you see some more bad news on TV about how the economy is expected to get even worse. Your mind may interpret that as an immediate threat that must be countered. It activates a mechanism of fear, which may cause you to evaluate the scenarios with which you can prevent this fear from happening.
This is a very protective mechanism which evolved as a way to protect ourselves from imminent and tangible harm.
But when there is uncertainty present, and you do not know what can happen, the fear still exists. The thing that makes its activation different from a situation with which there is indeed imminent and tangible harm (for example, if you are walking down the street and a car is bearing toward you at high speeds) is that when the tangible threat goes away, and you are unscathed, then the fear subsides, because you are certain the threat is gone.
On the other hand, when uncertainty is involved, which can breed a constant state of trepidation, then your innate fear mechanism stays in a low level of activation. Since the threats are not immediately tangible, your mind may race and look for explanations to counter the foreboding thoughts.
This is where something may go from being a passing thought to a state of long-term stress. But this is also where you can change this, just by implementing some conscious effort into your subconscious.
When you understand these thought processes, you may realize that what keeps you up at night may actually be an exaggerated threat caused by an overly-activated fear mechanism that is searching for ways to counter the fear. But since there can be so many variables and uncertainty, your mind doesn’t stop looking for answers, thereby making it more difficult to set these thoughts aside and enter a more relaxed state.
Much of this can seem so real, but it is actually an automated thought process that may lie deep in your subconscious mind.
So what is the key? One thing that can really help is to let the thoughts that trigger the fear mechanism (feelings of danger, uncertainty, etc.) just merely exist in your mind, but without incessantly trying to counter them, fight them, or explain them away.
It could kind of go like this: Say you’re lying down to go to sleep for the night, and something reminds you of the thought of losing your job. This causes you to feel a bit uneasy. You feel fearful, so your natural reaction is to try to find ways to counter and eliminate the fear (danger). You may then start to analyze the last couple of weeks at your job, looking for signs or evidence that may disprove this fear (in other words, looking for positive happenings that show your company is not thinking of laying people off). You may indeed not find anything which helps quench the fear mechanism, so you start re-hashing other aspects of recent days at the office. Did you read any reports that evidence the success of your company? Has human resources disclosed any recent news that points toward job stability? Did the last quarterly earnings report show your firm as being profitable?
So while thinking through everything, more and more thoughts of uncertainty may arise, leading you to think through other scenarios. These subconscious triggers are infiltrating your conscious mind, and after a while, you look at the clock, and realize that you have been lying awake for a couple hours, and its getting late!
Let’s trace back to where this all started. The first trigger was the subconscious thought that popped into your mind. Something reminded you of the thought of losing your job. This may have been entirely generated by your subconscious, but it activated your fear mechanism, which in turn caused you to direct your conscious thoughts to it, in an effort to quell the fear and danger that feels so real. But since there is uncertainty involved, there is no one thing that can really explain it all away. What this means is that, whether you spend 5 seconds thinking about it or 5 hours, you may usually find that the end result is the same – no real solution has been accomplished - and you are left feeling drained, stressed, and anxious.
The main point to remember is that you can help prevent yourself from going down this path toward prolonged stress, which leads to fatigue and other issues, just by consciously changing how you react to thoughts of uncertainty, and the accompanying fear that results.
As mentioned earlier, when your subconscious generates a worrisome thought, then purposely just try to let that thought exist and be there, without trying to counter it and without trying to quell the fear it creates by going through the motions. Make room for it, all the while realizing two things:
1. You have done the best you can, given the resources that you have, to minimize any negative effects that could be caused by the seemingly present danger at hand. There is no reason to try to re-hash it all, because it is natural for a person to try to minimize danger and negativity when it comes to situations that impose them.
2. The world is full of variables and things which you cannot control. You accept this, and will make the most of whatever may happen.
As much as your mind may try to explain everything and seek absolute certainty, it is not possible. As a result, it is of much benefit to allow space in your mind for things that are fearsome to you, but which cause your conscious mind to pursue a futile effort of certainty.
But you may ask: “Don’t these thoughts cause anxiety in and of themselves, therefore warranting a reduction in that anxiety by trying to satisfy their need for a solution?”
Don’t be fooled by this. Like I have mentioned, this can many times be a futile effort, therefore wasting mental energy searching for non-existent certainty.
“But these fearsome thoughts still cause anxiety? What to do then?”
This is an important element of this process. When you accept the low-level anxiety that a sudden worrisome thought produces, and allow room for it to be there, without trying to explain it away, then that thought (and the accompanying anxiety) will pass. Your mind will naturally shift its attention and focus when you are not drawing attention to the worrisome thoughts by attempting to eliminate them and trying to explain them away.
Give it a try next time. When a troublesome thought arises, you will likely be able to determine right away if it is a valid, tangible fear that requires immediate attention, or if it is something that does not have a definitive solution or answer. When uncertainty and lack of immediacy is present, then purposefully try to shift your focus, without having to come to a conclusion and generate an answer to the fear the has reared its head. Instead, you could go work on a hobby. You could read a pleasant book. You could go for a walk, play sports, listen to music, or hundreds of other things that can occupy your consciousness. Also, if you happen to be trying to go to sleep, then focus on your breathing. Take some deep breaths, and concentrate on the action of inhaling and exhaling. Just this shift of focus itself may help you enter a more relaxed state, and keep your consciousness away from the ever-present fear that these times have generated.
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